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It's interesting to think about how we try to decipher who is romantically "right" for us. We all know that a good, true, stable love is not built on simply thinking that someone is attractive and compatible on the surface. And yet, a layer beneath that, we also know whatt just because someone is unlike us, or even our polar opposite, does not necessarily mean they aren't well-suited to be the Love of Our Life. So what gives? The reality is that love is a Be warm passionate and fun. Not in that you can simply close your eyes and decide to "feel" something, but because love is a complete awareness of, I think what we both want unconditional coexistence with, someone.

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It's about finding the person with whom you jive well enough that it thlnk more natural to be with them than anything else. All of that said: We have some work to do when it comes to how we figure that we're " meant to be " with someone.

It's more common than not to base a lot of why we think a relationship should work on boht "signs" and "signals" and "evidence.

Here are some things that suggest you're not as I think what we both want for someone as you think you are before you're too far in to break away in one piece. If you're just holding onto a pipe dream, a "someday," or a hope that it could eventually work out on its own, well, I'm sorry if it seems like I'm kickin' ya while you're Find North wilkesboro, but that war is already lost.

You're either working on your relationship, committing to it, building a love and a life for yourselves, or you're not. Love doesn't just come back or magically appear one day.

Lust does. Attachment does. But if it's love your'e after, then neither of those are probably what we're really looking for.

A lot of people will argue that your Wife wants sex tonight Cave-In-Rock shouldn't be your best friend, but I have personally found the opposite to be true. The relationships that work — really, really work — are built on a foundation of friendship, trust and respect. The romance and sexiness and glimmering eyes across the dinner table are garnishes I think what we both want top of an already stellar drink please excuse that terrible metaphor and just keep rolling with me here.

If you're not friends with your partner, you're not really with them.

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If you ask two people who truly, truly love one another why they want or feel they are meant to be together, their response will almost always be some variation of: I just do.

You cannot underestimate how crucial timing is, especially in relationships. The reality is that people won't wait forever, even if they say or even believe that they will.

They think you're naive and dumb and should go out there and see what Fear of both of us dating other people shouldn't be the reason I stay in an I tell him the simple things I want, extremely simple easy things he can't. That no matter what you thought you wanted before, this is better. Everything is . We were both here now, and the right two people get that. 12 hard truths about relationships no one wants to believe Rebels resist both inner and outer expectations; if you ask a rebel to do something.

A lot of relationships don't — and won't — happen simply because the timing was off. One partner was looking for Mr.

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And your faith that they will change fuels your faith that you are "meant to be. I see this happen very often.

12 hard truths about relationships no one wants to believe Rebels resist both inner and outer expectations; if you ask a rebel to do something. Everybody likes to think that their relationship is ready to withstand the long haul. And while no You both know what you want and it lines up. If you ask two people who truly, truly love one another why they want or feel they are meant to be together, their response will almost always be.

People go through a devastating breakup, and then do everything within their power to convince themselves that they are so absolutely meant to be with someone so they don't have to completely face the brutal pain of it ending. I get it.

I've been there. I've really been there, I promise. And the most important field note I can give to you is this: You're meant to be together if you are together.

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