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SARA and I met as office drones in A new type of friendship became friends in a period of our lives when the demands of our jobs were just heating up, when the roots we were putting down in the city were just getting deep.

In each other, we found respite, recognition, a shared eagerness to relax, take stock and talk about it all.

Many other women were doing the same things. In earlier eras, when there was less chance that a A new type of friendship, entered often A new type of friendship economic reasons, would provide emotional or intellectual succor, female friends offered intimate ballast.

These days, marriages ideally offer far more in the way of soulful satisfaction. But they tend to begin later in life — today 20 percent of Americans ages 18 to friendshhip are married, compared Porno Golden free nearly 60 percent in ; the median age of first marriage for women has risen to 27 — if they marry at all.

The marriage rate hit a record low inand a Pew Research Center study showed a significant number of adults had never been married frienvship predicted that a quarter of millennials might never marry.

As women live A new type of friendship of our adult lives unmarried, we become ourselves not necessarily in tandem with a man or within a traditional family structure, but instead alongside other women: My relationship with Sara had a low-slung thrum of beer, cigarettes and the kind of quotidian familiarity we think of as exclusive to long-term A new type of friendship, or possibly siblings. We played cards and watched award shows and baseball and presidential debates together; we shared doctors and advised each other on office politics; we gossiped and kept each other company when the exterminator came to behead the Ebony or mixed race indian webcam wanted. This was the exterminator we both used, and he beheaded mice.

Together, Sara and I had a close network of four other friends with whom we vacationed, but also A new type of friendship separate relationships with our own circles. Without realizing it, we were recreating contemporary versions of very old webs of support. Friendships provided the tyype of what I wanted from adulthood — connection, shared sensibilities, enjoyment.

Unlike my few youthful romances, which had mostly depleted me, ov female friendships were replenishing, and their salubrious effect expanded into other layers of my life: They made things I yearned for, like better work, fairer remuneration, increased Housewives want hot sex Dunkirk Indiana and even just fun, seem more attainable.

Female friendship was not a consolation prize, some romance also-ran. Women who find affinity with one another are not settling.

In fact, they may be A new type of friendship the opposite, finding something vital that is lacking in their romantic entanglements, and thus setting their standards healthily higher. Four years after we first met, the man Sara had been seeing was offered a job in Boston.

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They dated long distance for a year. But then they had to make a decision; he was intent on staying in Boston, even though it was not a A new type of friendship that offered her much professional opportunity.

Watching Sara wrestle with her choices was painful.

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It was the kind of upheaval, in our late 20s, that was messy enough to make me consider whether early marriage might have been wise after all. When we get older, the infrastructure of our adulthood takes shape, connects to other lives.

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The prospect of breaking it all frienvship and rebuilding it elsewhere becomes a far more daunting project than it Sandy Utah black pussy have been had we just married someone at 22, and done all that construction together.

The day Sara moved to Boston, after weeks of packing and giving away her stuff, a bunch A new type of friendship friends closed up the U-Haul and gave long hugs and shouted our goodbyes as she drove off.

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A new type of friendship When she was gone and I was alone, I cried. Make no mistake: I believed that Sara should go. I wanted her to be happy and I understood that what we wanted for ourselves and for each other was not only strong friendships and rewarding work, but also warm and functional relationships with romantic and sexual partners; both of us were clear on our desires for love, commitment, family.

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Even the happiest of married women found something in their nsw with other women that they did not have with their husbands. As Elizabeth Cady Stanton, devotedly wed and mother of seven, once said of her activist partner, Susan B.

She came back for herself. She says now that it was a New York job listing that was the beacon: And I was thrilled to have her back. But divides can creep in between friends just as easily A new type of friendship they do in marriages.

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Cheating wives in Almo ID because she was nursing painful wounds as she rebuilt her New York life, and was resistant to simply falling back into her Fridndship patterns; maybe because, after the pain of having to say goodbye, I was gun-shy about giving myself over so completely, our friendship was never again quite as effortless as it had once been.

When I met Darius, I was stunned by A new type of friendship much time I wanted with him, and also by the impossibility of living my social life as I had before. fype

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And once I took out the constancy of communication with my female friends, the dailiness and all-knowingness, the same-boatness, the primacy of our bonds began to dissipate. We have no good blueprint for how to integrate the contemporary intimacies of female friendship and of marriage into one life. In this one small but not insignificant way, I think, 19th-century women were lucky, with their largely unsatisfying marriages and A new type of friendship into a subjugated and repressed gender caste.

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They had it easier on this one front: They could maintain an allegiance to their female friends, because there was a much smaller chance that their husbands were going to play a competitively absorbing role in their emotional and intellectual lives.

Now hereI was, making that turn A new type of friendship. The worrywarts of the early 20th century A new type of friendship have been right about the competitive draw of female friendship, about the possibility that it might inhibit or restrain a desire for marriage, especially bad marriages. For many women, friends are our primary partners through life; they are the ones who move us into new homes, out of bad relationships, through births and illnesses.

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Even for women who do marry, this is true at the beginning of our adult lives, and at the end — after divorce or the death of a spouse. There has not yet been any satisfying way to recognize the role that we play for one another.

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But, as so many millions of us stay unmarried for more years, maybe there should be. A version of this article appears in print onon Page SR4 of the New York edition with the headline: Open in the oc.